Play Safe and Play Smart! - A Guide to using Erotic Hypnosis Safely

Erotic trance a wonderful state of mind to be in. Dreamy, relaxing, comforting and oh so arousing. Can't you just imagine flaking out and completely letting go, listening to a sexy erotic hypnotist? It's true, erotic hypnosis is a fascinating and exciting journey. However, I wouldn't be doing my job as a responsible hypnotist if I didn't talk about the issues, pitfalls and obstacles one may face as they pursue this pastime.

To put things in perspective, consider that walking on a sidewalk can be dangerous if you don't show a decent level of common sense and caution on your journey. If you ignore traffic rules, walk into stationary things you can easily get hurt. Experimenting with erotic hypnosis is just the same. You need to use your head if you are going to play with your head.

DO RESEARCH FIRST
I am always amazed how many people just jump in and offer their brain to some unknown hypnotist to tinker with. Aside from assessing as to whether they are ethical you also need to ensure they are capable. The easiest way to discover is to post questions in a YAHOO forum such as HYPNOPLAYTIME or HYPNOFETISH or ask others. If a hypnotist doesn't have a proven track record and you don't know them you need to seriously ask if this is a smart move for you. Relevant hypnosis certification is fine but this information can be difficult to prove and very easy to fake.

BEWARE OF YOUR OWN MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES
If you suffer from psychotic ailments, experience significant depression or anxiety then think twice before you play. Hypnosis can stir up surppressed emotions and make things uncomfortable for you. Hypnosis won't break you but it might force you to do some mental housecleaning you have been putting off.

ESTABLISH A TRUSTED RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR HYPNOTIST
Good hypnotists and bad hypnotists exist on the Internet. It doesn't matter if they are free or they charge, good and bad exist in both sectors. Your relationship should be focused on achieving what you want, so make sure you understand exactly what they have to offer. A safe erotic hypnotist should be prepared to describe the session and ensure you they make no other secret suggestions. The primary concern to me is around suggestions that require you to work with one hypnotist, divulge private information or suggest you will give them money (outside of a reasonable session fee). You must always be keenly aware of the hypnotists intent.

ABOUT HYPNO ADDICTION
First, let me give you my definition of addiction. Addiction is anything, be it a good habit or bad where you sacrifice other aspects of your life in order to get more of it. Everything you do needs to be in balance. Erotic Hypnosis is fun and pleasurable but too much can be problematic. Be aware of the time you spend on your fetish. If you run into difficulty ask your hypnotist for help or give yourself the freedom to stop immediately. You absolutely can.

BEWARE OF WHAT YOU ASK FOR

I am not going to judge your secret desires but I do want to reinforce the notion that you will become what you seek. It's that simple and the more you want it the more you will become it, so step back from time to time and think about your future. Ask yourself, is this behaviour something I am seeking for my long term.

Ultimately I want you to enjoy your hypnotic experiences. I want them to be a part of you that brings you pleasure and excitement. I have seen first hand the excitement and arousal erotic hypnosis can bring into peoples lives. All I ask is that you enjoy it in a safe, sane manner that enhances your future.

For Better or For Worse - An Introduction to Erotic Hypnosis in your Relationship

For me it all started when I saw my first Stage Hypnosis show. I realized in minutes the tremendous power hypnosis could have on people's lives. Helping people change, helping people let go and helping people have fun. A new world with infinite possibilities was mine to explore.

Being a guy, it didn't take me long to focus some attention (okay all) to the possibilities of using hypnosis in the bedroom. I could just imagine, being able to snap my fingers and watch my partner react and do all the things I ever fantasized they would. Soon with practice my little fantasy came to life as my partner was a wonderful cooperative subject. It was amazing to watch her transform instantly before my eyes and to see her absolutely let go of all her inhibitions. Our bedroom was alive!

In a future article I will focus more attention on the things you can do using erotic hypnosis but for the sake of this article I thought it might be useful to understand some of the possibilities. With erotic hypnosis you can reduce inhibition, increase sexual desire and explore sexual fantasies. You can introduce triggers so that when certain things happen your lover has a unique and wonderful experience. (Yes, you can teach people how to cum on command) Since the power of the mind is so wonderfully amazing you can both experience the thrill and excitement of being with other lovers without ever straying from each other. I gaurantee if done right, erotic hypnosis will change your relationship.

Now before you run off and buy "Turn my Partner into a Sex Obsessed Lover" let me share a few lessons learned. Lesson One, trust is the foundation that successful hypnosis is built on. If your partner doesn't trust you, you have to build it before you can proceed. Also, you need to constantly maintain that trust or your hypnotic bond can be broken instantly. As well, you must always ensure your sessions are going to places your partner is comfortable with. If you invade their privacy or try to make them something they don't want you are gauranteed to pay a heavy price. Lesson Two, if you want longevity center the focus around your partner's pleasure. Make this experience all about them. As you get deeper into erotic hypnosis you will realize the tremendous power you hold. This power is sexy, fun and exciting but it can and will quickly fade if your partner feels that you are only concerned about your pleasure and the things that get you off. You need to have a balance that both of you enjoy. Lesson Three, take it slow. I have seen hypnosis burn out quickly in the bedroom because it just got overused. Take your time and make hypnosis an element of your playtime not the only thing you ever do. It's tempting but boredom can and will set in, especially if your partner is not fully engaged in this form of erotic excitement. The possibilities for couples are endless and I truly mean endless.

As someone who is passionate about helping lovers re-ignite the excitement in their bedroom I look forward to sharing ideas, insights and my own personal experiences to help you enjoy and evolve through the passion and pleasure of erotic hypnosis.