Wednesday, September 26, 2007

For Better or For Worse - An Introduction to Erotic Hypnosis in your Relationship


For me it all started when I saw my first Stage Hypnosis show. I realized in minutes the tremendous power hypnosis could have on people's lives. Helping people change, helping people let go and helping people have fun. A new world with infinite possibilities was mine to explore.

Being a guy, it didn't take me long to focus some attention (okay all) to the possibilities of using hypnosis in the bedroom. I could just imagine, being able to snap my fingers and watch my partner react and do all the things I ever fantasized they would. Soon with practice my little fantasy came to life as my partner was a wonderful cooperative subject. It was amazing to watch her transform instantly before my eyes and to see her absolutely let go of all her inhibitions. Our bedroom was alive!

In a future article I will focus more attention on the things you can do using erotic hypnosis but for the sake of this article I thought it might be useful to understand some of the possibilities. With erotic hypnosis you can reduce inhibition, increase sexual desire and explore sexual fantasies. You can introduce triggers so that when certain things happen your lover has a unique and wonderful experience. (Yes, you can teach people how to cum on command) Since the power of the mind is so wonderfully amazing you can both experience the thrill and excitement of being with other lovers without ever straying from each other. I gaurantee if done right, erotic hypnosis will change your relationship.

Now before you run off and buy "Turn my Partner into a Sex Obsessed Lover" let me share a few lessons learned. Lesson One, trust is the foundation that successful hypnosis is built on. If your partner doesn't trust you, you have to build it before you can proceed. Also, you need to constantly maintain that trust or your hypnotic bond can be broken instantly. As well, you must always ensure your sessions are going to places your partner is comfortable with. If you invade their privacy or try to make them something they don't want you are gauranteed to pay a heavy price. Lesson Two, if you want longevity center the focus around your partner's pleasure. Make this experience all about them. As you get deeper into erotic hypnosis you will realize the tremendous power you hold. This power is sexy, fun and exciting but it can and will quickly fade if your partner feels that you are only concerned about your pleasure and the things that get you off. You need to have a balance that both of you enjoy. Lesson Three, take it slow. I have seen hypnosis burn out quickly in the bedroom because it just got overused. Take your time and make hypnosis an element of your playtime not the only thing you ever do. It's tempting but boredom can and will set in, especially if your partner is not fully engaged in this form of erotic excitement. The possibilities for couples are endless and I truly mean endless.

As someone who is passionate about helping lovers re-ignite the excitement in their bedroom I look forward to sharing ideas, insights and my own personal experiences to help you enjoy and evolve through the passion and pleasure of erotic hypnosis.

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